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What constitutes cheating in your relationship?
A new dating site CougarLife.com is is trying to turn breastfeeding into, well, a turn-on in a new billboard in Los Angeles, according to Buzzfeed. The ad, located near West Hollywood, shows a shirtless woman nursing an infant, her breast pixilated. A thought bubble from the baby asks: "Jealous?"
Doing a little....background research? Here's the most 'appropriate' etiquette when it comes to googling your date.
I left my ex for someone else. I wasn't cheating on him. Rather, it was for a person who didn't exist yet: my unborn child.
If you feel like your love life has gone from hot to lukewarm since having kids, you'll be nodding along with the words of this hilarious song
Six weeks. That’s about the length of time after a tragedy when the shock subsides, the adrenaline wears off and reality sinks in.
Tired, cranky, uncomfortable pregnant women who are past their due date will pretty much do anything to bring on labour.
Kaz Cooke reveals: One of the chief delights of being a writer or cartoonist is that because you control the story, or the speech bubbles, it looks like you can think of a brilliant comeback at precisely the right moment. In real life there have been many times when somebody said something so outrageous my brain went into immediate melt-down and I was left so gobsmacked I could only stand there and gape like a particularly dim goldfish.
The ivillage confession: I am having an affair with my boss. Do you have a confession that you want to get off your chest - send it anonymously to villagepeople@ivillage.com.au and we will publish it for you.
Maiden name versus married name My birth name wasn't just a string of letters used to distinguish my jackets and underpants from those of my peers; it was my identity. It was literally and figuratively who I was.
Awwww ... a lovestruck man has gone down on bended fin in Sydney Harbour, proposing to his sweetheart on a scuba dive.
older Australians are quicker to have sex than their younger counterparts. An RSVP survey of 3,300 Australians found that although two-to-four dates is the average number of “dates” before having sex, Australian singles aged over 51 are the most likely age group to have sex on the first date.
I'm pregnant with my first child and I have major mother-in-law issues. We've always had a perfectly fine relationship but somehow she seems to think this is her baby not mine. She is constantly tut-tutting over every decision I mak
A couple confronts the horrific consequences of same-sex marriage. Starring: Dixie Perkinson, David Storch, and Lainee Rhodes.
Research from the Murdoch Children's Research Institute has found that the average woman waits until six weeks after giving birth before having sex.
The worst pick up lines ever When it comes to breaking the ice, would these guys get your number?
There’s something about living with other people that calibrates your tidiness against each other and assigns one person the role of Clean Freak (aka The Nag) and someone else the role of Messy Pig (aka The Nagged).
This gorgeous man who genuinely finds me attractive enough to want to ravish me, or in our exhausted state, hit privates against in a rhythm somewhat similar to the Dora the Explorer song, and I'm miserable and sobbing with my tank top still on all, maintain eye contact right now! Because at that point, I felt sexy from like, my chin up. My main chin, not that other one.
Going on a date without the children is fun. Even a trip to the supermarket without the children is fun these days. But date nights with The Architect (my husband) can be . . . well . . . rather underwhelming at times. It’s not that they’re not enjoyable – they are, truly! It’s just that they’re never quite as exhilarating as the pre-Married with Children ones were.
What is the worst Valentine's Gift that you can imagine receiving? Do these er, quirky ideas come close?
Say 'I Love You' -- With Ink - Falling in love, getting engaged or getting hitched to your sweetheart -- they're such life-altering, happy experiences, that many couples commemorate them with love-inspired ink. Here, a roundup of the coolest, most creative love-themed tats.
New Year's resolutions are so January 1. Make a romance resolution on February 14. Not sure where to start? Be inspired by this collection of 50 Valentine's Day resolutions from iVillagers. Then make - and keep - one of your own!
If you ask a childless couple what they have planned for Valentine’s Day, it’s likely it will elicit a romantic response. Ask the same question to a couple with young children and it’s likely they will laugh. Valentine’s Day is right around the corner, and many happy romantics will be celebrating. Whilst I have never been one to set aside the 14th of February to show my love for my partner, I would love a night of romance.
How will Valentine's Day spark your lover's passion? Find their Chinese animal sign below and learn more!
New research from sociologists at the University of Washington has found married men and women who divide household chores in traditional ways report having more sex than couples who share so-called men’s and women’s work.
When I heard about Keith Urban shedding a tear when he saw his wife, Nicole Kidman, on the red carpet for the SAG Awards, I thought "awwww, sweet". Because I'm totally fine with men emoting in principle. The world would be a much better place if men felt comfortable expressing their feelings.
I have a theory based on a sample size of one (me) that the way we approach relationships is hugely influenced by the relationship of our parents. So when I was recently asked what’s the best relationship advice you ever got, the first thing that came to mind was don’t take any shit from your partner.
I’ve got this thing for older men. It’s weird, because I wasn’t previously wired this way. I’ve always drooled over the pretty boys. But I’m finding 50-year-old men increasingly attractive. And the Zac Efrons of this world are leaving me cold.
Getting married does not make you a superior person. It’s a regular part of life and millions do it all the time. This is part of the reason I am not joining the smug married club
Every friendship has its rough patches, some are just more durable than others, and some simply have a short shelf life. When you see the signs that your relationship is heading south, it's time to call it quits. So how do you get rid of a toxic friend? We’ve gathered some tips from relationship pros on how to best sail the choppy waters of firing a friend.
Shake up your sex life with 65 tips that will drive you and your partner wild with desire
There’s only room for one messy adult in a household. And at my place, that badge of dishonour belongs to me. It’s unclear how this happened because I used to be quite tidy. But then I moved in with someone whose mess threshold was fractionally lower than mine and, as seems to happen in relationships, we slowly pushed each other to extremes of behaviour. He became the Clean Police and I became Captain Pigsty.
A Woman's Idea of the Perfect Man - 23 qualities of a 'perfect man' as backed by 'research' similar to the bull Men’s Health used to write that crappy article everyone is so pissed about
Anniversaries, birthdays, special occasions and Christmas evoke powerful reminders of grief. We grieve again at the birth of a child, a marriage, a celebration when we mourn the absence of a loved-one no longer physically present in our lives; that that person is not there to celebrate, commiserate, acknowledge, share or witness the event. Many people don’t understand the sheer physicality of grief.
Don’t let the family drama ruin your fun (or relationships) this Christmas (12 Photos)
When it comes to love, we don’t get a licence to certify that we’re properly qualified. We fall in love, like we might a pothole we could have avoided had we been paying closer attention. Relationships come without guidebooks or user manuals.
Relationship deal breakers. It’s pretty hardcore when your differences of opinion actually affect your child’s health. And it’s hard enough within a marriage so I can’t even imagine what it’s like when you don’t actually love each other anymore.
With one friend you feel as if you are quite intelligent, discussing erudite issues of politics or literature. You are witty, insightful; the right phrase springs into your mouth at the right time. The very next night, in the company of someone else, you feel dumb and boring. Anxiety or insecurity grips so strongly that the right word, the witty phrase, can never fight its way through to the surface.
No one likes a stranger in their wedding photos. Okay maybe not no one. The bride and groom are never mad about a photobomber but the people looking at the photos love it. In fact we love it so much we've gathered some of our favourite ones for you to click through
That person did what he thought was best when he saw a situation that nobody really knew how to handle, let alone me. That person moved to stop a person abusing someone weaker than himself.
From Brad Pitt to George Clooney, see the star guys who make going grey look amazing
The latest Coca Cola ad made us feel a little emotional, Let´s look at the world a little differently
You probably can’t do much to change the situation but you can make it better by saving the generic “I’m so sorry” and trying these helpful exercises instead
Find out what Sting and Trudie have been banging on about all these years -here are 16 ways you can try tantric sex tonight!
It’s a man’s world, so the song goes and if we are honest, that is still pretty true despite the shackle-shaking of the feminist movement. Most politicians are male, most heads of corporations are male, males make more money across the board for the same jobs that women do.
A month ago, Jackie Samuel launched a website, The Snuggery, where people can go to her home to cuddle mano-y-mano. Samuel says she started the company because she felt the need to help all the poor Americans who do not have non-sexual touch in their lives. And, of couse, no good deed should go unpaid.
I found myself singing it the other day after my neighbour saved my sorry backside. I got to thinking that I really should make more effort to get to know my neighbours better.
Check out this gallery of grooms being blown away at the first sight of their bride on their wedding day. Some hilariously cute, spontaneous and raw expressions via Buzzfeed
When you were a kid, making a new friend was as easy as offering someone a prized sticker. It’s a little harder as an adult, but it’s certainly not impossible. These simple tips should help you snag a new BFF in no time (no scratch n’ sniff sticker required).
In Australia around one in three marriages end in divorce, but not a single one of us ever thinks it will happen to us - which is why it can feel all the more unreal and heartbreaking when it does. In those early days, especially, it's easy to feel like you won't get through the next hour, let alone the whole day. Here's what we wish we'd known
Feeling curmudgeonly and overwhelmed by life? Nobody can snap you out of a funk like a good girlfriend. Here’s why making time for close friends can make you happier, healthier and a better person (16 Photos)
What ‘conditions’ do you put on enjoying your life? Are you holding off until you lose 5kg, or have another baby, or find a new house or a different job, or buy a Thermomix or see Europe or until your kids get through this stage, or your partner gives up weekend sport?
Nonstop orgasms and other random and interesting sex facts. When it comes to love and sex everyone's got questions. We round up some of the most random -- and interesting -- facts on sex for your reading pleasure
Today we read news that Danny DeVito and his wife Rhea Perlman are divorcing after 30 years of marriage. I know that they certainly aren't the first couple to decide that after 30 years enough is enough - hey my own husband's parents divorced after 28 years of marriage but Danny is 67, Rhea is 64. And you don't often see people that age divorcing.
A recent study revealed that women these days would prefer a promotion to a proposal. In fact a whopping 66 per cent of single Aussies said so. As a 26-year-old ambitious female, I understand why. It’s not to say that women these days don’t want to get married and have lost all tradition. Quite the opposite. Tradition is still alive and kicking.
After over 5 years living out of home in two different locations, I've packed up the majority of my beloved belongings, left my partially-owned city loft apartment, hopped back into my barely-driven lately car and have now settled (almost) back at my parents hous
When a man wants oral sex he makes no bones about it. But sometimes getting him to return the favour can be tough? How do you pop the question without being pushy of making it awkward? We've talked to the experts for some gotta-try-this tips on encouraging your man to be an oral enthusiast.
Here’s the thing: marriage is never what you signed up for. It can morph into this thing with extraneous elements you can’t always control [unemployment, working too much, infertility, financial issues, in-laws you don’t like, cheating, illness, and the list goes on). Mere years after your wedding day, this thing called ‘real life’ can make a mockery of that expensive wedding you took a loan to pay for [don’t ever do that!].
I recently had an experience of the superficial world of online dating. I had thought to myself that maybe I might find Mr Right this way – I am a bit over the pub scene. I gained a little hope when many a profile read “no games please” or “don’t bother if you’re a player” (yes apparently we girls can be players also).
Think your birthdays are awkward? Think again! Check out these awesomely awkward birthday photos.
Get your free copy of The Siren erotic fiction here - The phone rang at seven and the call itself consisted of only seven words - her hello followed by his “The club at nine. Wait blindfolded.”
Forget swingers parties because sex with strangers is so passé, now it’s all about paying for cuddles and No Sex.
Got a 'personal' question relating to matters 'downstairs'? From suspicious odours to sex injuries, we examine some of the more embarrassing queries you may not feel like sharing over a cup of tea and a biscuit...
Getting turned down for a date can be awful. Getting turned down during a marriage proposal can be excruciating. But imagine that rejection was recorded and broadcast on the Internet for the world to see
Could you be harming your relationship without realising it? Here are ten habits that could lead to a break-up lest you keep them in check.
Group therapy: help my mother-in-law is coming to dinner! Can you help our iVillage reader for her dinner party - click to comment.
A friend’s husband proposed via a full-page advertisement in Cleo magazine. Another was surprised during a stroll along the banks of the Yarra when, amongst the buskers and street artists there was a painting with her name on it, and the words ‘will you marry me?’
I’m a bridesmaid to one of my best friends from high school and with the wedding coming up in a month’s time, I’m struggling to pay for everything. As I haven’t done this before I need some help in how I can say this to the bride.
Surely there is no greater joy in life than having someone tell you they no longer love you, continuing to live with them until you can both find somewhere else to live in the tight Sydney rental market, and sharing the experience of one of life’s greatest stressors, moving. It was an awesome time in my life...anyone else been there?
From the single girl who's planned her wedding to an anti-masturbation device, we've gathered the best (and craziest!) love and sex links from around the web.
So you're in a rut with your mate. It happens! But before you go searching for a new guy, consider the fact that you probably just need a new outlook! Try these 20 simple tricks and you'll see your love in a whole new light.
When it comes to friendship, quality is more important than quantity, and it is important to surround yourself with the right people to boost your happiness. Here are the five types of friend everyone should have.
Emily Gibson, family physician says that that pubic hair serves a purpose and should "stay right where it belongs,"
Nigel Marsh is best known for his creative pursuits. As well as the author of three books – Fat, Forty and Fired, Overworked and Underlaid and Fit, Fifty and Fired-Up – he is also the co-founder of Earth Hour and the founder of the upcoming Sydney Skinny. His first book is currently being developed into a major TV series in America by the creators of ‘Two and a Half Men’. You can buy his books here
Are there things you wish your partner was doing differently or better in bed? There's nothing wrong with that as long as you know the best ways to let him know what you like and where exactly without damaging his ego. Here's how to make sex exciting again and spice things up!
The 50 Shades of Grey phenomenon has certainly got a lot of people hot over sex toys. Find out which ones might suit you best
There is no worse poison that you can have in your life than the toxic friend. You need to get her out of your life and this is why (and more importantly) how
Think you've heard it all? We thought we had too -- until we heard about the people who get aroused by popping balloons or by just looking at hair or by dressing up as babies. Read about these libido-raising fetishes, fantasies and customs from around the world.
This video from the editors of Nerve.com was created with tongue firmly in cheek. Take a look at the new sex position they're calling the Tomkat in honour of newly divorced Tom Cruise and Katie Holmes.
Do you know how much vibrators have changed over the last 130 years? With the release of Hysteria, a movie about vibrators featuring Maggie Gyllenhaal, we thought it would be educational to look at best and worst vibrator designs through the ages.
Tom Cruise and Katie Holmes had a productive weekend! With their lawyers working around the clock, the superstar couple has reached a divorce settlement -- just 10 days after Holmes filed for divorce from her husband of five years.
I’ve reached a pivotal point in my life, where there’s an internal battle being waged: which parent will win in the end – who will I become? It's looking a lot like I will be my mother. And I am okay with that
Now that Johnny Depp is single after 14 years, he's moved to the top of Hollywood's "hottest bachelors" list and everyone's watching to see what happens next.
A bridal party in the US has taken a dip into a lake after the dock they were standing on collapsed in Michigan.
Delta Goodrem and Darren McMullen are dating. The stars of The Voice showed their affection during a Lady Gaga concert on Wednesday night.
Who better to get advice on how to please your man than from another man? From foreplay to full-on kinky, the best male 'sexperts' provide their top tips on how to make your man go wild
Just because someone gives you advice on your dating life doesn’t mean you should listen!
With daughter Mo at her dad's and boyfriend Dan with his mother, Jacqui gets some rare alone time, which gets her thinking about the importance of solitude. Is she ready to take her relationship with Dan to 'the next level'?
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There’s this guy I really like and we flirt quite a bit but my friend (who knows him quite well) has warned me about him. She says he’s really into playing the field and has read a book called The Game which apparently tells you how to pick up women. From my minimal research I think he seems to have used a few tricks from this book on me. Thing is, I really like him and I want to get to know him better but I don’t want to get caught up in his game playing. How do I get closer to him?
Jacqui takes her elderly aunt for their weekly trip to the shopping centre but a tour of the clothes shops reminds Jacqui why she dresses her age...
Ever wondered why some girls have it and others don't seem to have as much? Here's the science behind it.
Dr Pam shares her expert opinion with a woman whose boyfriend just doesn't turn her on anymore... is the relationship doomed?
Jacqui gets suspicious when her married friend starts indulging in beauty treatments. Is it ever OK to plan an affair?
How do you know when your relationship is just not right? Sometimes it’s a feeling you get - deep down, you know something’s off. But often there are tell-tale signs that you’re headed for splitsville. Time to read the writing on the wall.
From what turns us on to the crucial role kissing plays in romance and relationship.
Ready for great sex, simplified? We've done the dirty work and can tell you exactly which is the best sex position for you.
Dr Pam receives an email from a woman who is angry about her husband's (and father of her two sons) decision to have a vasectomy...
Too busy with revision, timetables and deadlines, Amelie decides that it is time to give boys and flirting a break. But is it easier said than done?
Sometimes you need a do-over to get to happily ever after - here’s how to navigate the singles scene, the second time around
Dr Pam helps out a young lady whose boyfriend seems to have a penchant for ladies' underwear and make-up...
Test drive these digital turn-ons and get jiggy with your iPhone, iPad or Android for £1.99 or less!
Enhance your personal pleasure - with your partner or alone - and maximise your climax with The Orgasmatron. Stimulating sex toys, saucy scenarios and games and a lover's diet will perfect your orgasm chances and technique.
Whether you've performed oral sex on him once or dozens of times, you've never done it like this! It's time to ramp up your original moves by trying any (or all) of the following twists
Don't you wish men came with manuals? Well, iVillage has the next best thing! Our Guy Decoder, W. Bruce Cameron, is here to explain your guy's most baffling behaviours. Just select one from our list below, and it will be translated right before your eyes. Oh, and don't worry: no guy has just one quirk, so feel free to come back again and again!
Dr. Pam Spurr’s Love Clinic tackles your sex and love issues. A big one is sexual communication - and usually the lack of it. Take Dr. Pam’s quiz to identify how high or low you are on the communication scale. Answers must be completely honest if you want a genuine result...
Dr. Pam Spurr’s Love Clinic on iVillage.co.uk tackles your sex and love issues. One issue causing lots of heartache is having relationships repeatedly fail. Dr. Pam finds there are three main culprits that hold you back from love - being too controlling, overdramatising things and being too inhibited. Take her quiz to identify if one of these is jeopardising your search for lasting love.
Having a healthy attitude to sex isn't just about being great in bed. It's about confidence. Discover your true sexual personality. So why not try this quiz?
Jacqui's daughter has a new friend at school - Eve. And Eve has two mums. Having gotten to know Eve's mums (and never one to shy away from controversial issues) Jacqui ponders the possibility that having two mums could be better than having a mum and dad...
How happy are you? Choose the most accurate response to each statement below and find out how contented are with yourself and your life. Then find out how to fulfil your happiness potential. by Susan Quilliam
Want to see if you and your lover have the right recipe for romance? How he whips up a meal can offer some major clues
The Internet has brought us many wonderful things… eBay, Amazon, iVillage UK, and social networking tools! But with cool stuff comes great responsibility. We’re talking about cyberstalking. When people are constantly uploading their entire lives online it’s hard not to take a quick peek. But before you know it you’re living your life online, obsessing over your ex’s profile and you’ve turned into a cyber bunny boiler. Take our Cyberstalker quiz to see if social networking has taken over your life!
Your man not quite doing what you want? Here are some helpful tips so you can get your way.
Sex problems in your love life... or love problems in your sex life? Whether you are single or attached, curious or confused, the interactive Love Clinic provides expert advice - from steamy sex tips to guidance on a range of relationship issues
Men might talk up a storm with the lads, but the truth is they love being in a relationship...and here's why...
Trying to decipher a guy’s moves isn’t easy - these 10 signs let you know how to read him.
A guide to the best of sex, romance and celebrating love for Valentine's ladies
Dating is hard. Doing it from across the country or even across the sea is even harder! Follow these rules to keep it together even when you’re apart
You can tell a lot about a guy just by watching the way he moves.Check out our expert advice, from where he puts his hands to overall body language, and gain a keener insight into what he's thinking...
From passion-filled salsa dancing to covering your man in chocolate, spice things up this Valentine's Day with a sexy treat for two...
Add some spice to your love life or go really X-rated with these saucy gifts and sex toys.
Find out how we’ve been getting it on (and getting off) with the help of gadgets and gizmos throught the ages
Are you ready to move on? Take this quiz to find out whether you're ready to meet Mr Right or still hung up on Mr Wrong.
So you both love old movies, hate raisins and disagree with your local council's waste policy, but how do you and your lover fare between the sheets?
Lesley Pearse is a No.1 bestseller and one of the UK’s top five female authors with sales of over four million copies of her novels in the UK alone. Here, she summarises her latest novel, The Promise.
With lifestyles getting busier and our diaries getting booked up faster than the Olympics tickets got sold, there seems to be less time to get ourselves out there on the dating scene. And if it's not that reason that we are still single, the old ways seem to be.. well, old news! Here are a few ways to spice things up for the new year. By Jey Matienzo
How to send a titillating text without getting caught with your digits showing.
You wore those killer heels, sipped expensive wine and dazzled him with your sparkling wit, but was the date as delicious as you thought? Take our quiz to find out if he'll be hot to trot or not…
The most important ingredients for good sex are to relax and let yourself go, so say iVillage members
Are you planning to buck tradition and pop the question? Jenny Colgan shares her top tips on how to propose to your man
While being in a relationship can help boost your health and happiness, it can also ruin your diet if you're not careful. To help stay in shape at each stage of your relationship, check out the most common fat traps to avoid.
If you're unsure of the signals he's sending your way, here's our simple guide to help...
Whether you're looking for something pretty for her or failsafe for him, or your stuck for ideas of what to get the kids this year. Look no further than our comprehensive gift guide
When you’re in a new relationship, spending Christmas together is a big deal. It’s a way of telling everyone – including your new lover – that you reckon they’re a keeper. Take this step too soon, and you risk looking over-keen and scaring your new partner away.
The first date is that all important dating acid test, where you’re sizing each other up. If your first date goes well, it can be a great experience that leads to something special. But if it doesn’t it can end up being a night you’ll never forget, for all the wrong reasons. To increase your batting average of great first dates, take heed of these 10 terrible dating moves, from eHarmony’s relationship advice expert Jules Filsell.
Tempted to get stuck into the wine and corner Jake the sales guy at the office Christmas do this December? You might want to think again after reading these five solid reasons to keep your intentions pure, from eHarmony’s relationship advice expert Jules Filsell.
Get primed for some double-oh pleasure with an insight into the world of multiple orgasm.
How to handle the top 10 libido killers so you can get your sex life back on track.
If you’re going to break the Girl Code rule of 'hands off my man even if I’m no longer dating him,' you should follow these rules to get through it, good luck!
Christmas is prime time for having an affair, according to leading marital affairs website IllicitEncounters.com. With over 620,000 members (that’s 3 per cent of the British public’s married population), they have experienced a spike in activity and new members joining - a rise of 200-300 per cent - every year for the last 11 years that they’ve been open for business.
No drive, lack of manners, arrogance...our friends back in America tell us what makes them say 'no' to another date.
Whether you're an Edward or a Jacob fan, there are lots of love and lust lessons we can learn from Twilight.
There’s so much to sort out when you’re getting married, and we’re not just talking about deciding on the best seating plan to keep your feuding aunties apart, , or what song you’ll pick for your first dance. There are plenty of exciting things that you need to choose, from the reception venue, the honeymoon destination and, of course, the wedding dress – but there’s also a lot of rather dull paperwork to do as well.
Do you have a great love life that's just become a bit stagnant? Give me one weekend. Follow our relationships advice, and you can say goodbye to the blahs. With these six simple steps, we'll give that love life and sex life, a boost into relationship bliss.
5 tips from our American cousins who have made their long distance relationships last.
Being single is all fun and games until you find yourself out on a terrifying or mortifying date. But don't worry - you're not alone, it's just the same the otherside of the pond! Here are some real life scary stories from dating disasters all the way from the US...
You've taken sex ed, have hands-on experience and have seen every episode of 'Sex and the City' - twice. So, you think you know a lot about sex? Here are the 20 things your health teacher most certainly never taught you.
Fake it till you make it? Not when it comes to your orgasm! Follow these easy (and fun!) steps to reaching your peak faster and wave goodbye to the fake 'oh'-s.
We all know that the attraction and relationships between men and women is an inexact science. Indeed, there are many common misconceptions about what stimulates romantic chemistry between the sexes. Alexander Stroud and Raymond Cliffs work for SpeedbirdConsultants.com, a company that hosts seminars and presentations on seduction techniques for men. Here, they provide an insight into some of the misguided thought processes that occur in the male brain.
Top tips from the people who know on finding and keeping your perfect guy.
When done right, a one-night stand can be exciting and even empowering! Follow our rules to make it a great night!
Taking your clothes off in front of your partner can be a nerve-wracking experience, especially if you're a new relationship. However, if you're looking to perk up your sex life with something new, performing a sultry striptease could be the answer. Follow our tips to ensure your naked fear turns to naked fun for you both.
Men are enigmatic creatures. What’s with those erections in morning? What does he like best in bed? And does he really think about sex all the time? Here are the answers to the questions you’ve been too polite to ask him straight from the source…
Ever wonder what blokes talk about when we're not around? Here's your chance to eavesdrop. iVillage and AskMen.com have joined forces to reveal what's really on guys' minds - and just how bluntly they discuss it. Welcome inside the men's changing room.
Is there something preventing you from a fantastically fulfilling feel-good finish? We've got some solutions for you - from getting to know your own body to overcoming the psychological barriers, your perfect orgasm is just around the corner...
Ever wondered what men really look for in a girlfriend? Thought that men's choices where totally incomprehensible? Have no fear. We are here to clear it all up and to tell you the top ten characteristics that men look for in a girlfriend.
From sex positions and tantric sex to foreplay and sex toys, iVillage.co.uk blogger Dr. Pam Spurr, gives her 10 tips to guarantee orgasmic bliss every time.
Ever wondered what types of women men avoid? Well, here are the top five...from a man's point of view.
Just when you thought you knew everything about men and relationships, the gents at AskMen released the results to their 2011 Great Male Survey. So, would the modern man dump you if you got fat? Date a woman who earns more? Pop a male birth control pill? Fake an orgasm? See what over 70,000 of 'em had to say...
It's easy to get caught up in the moment, but sometimes it can be hard to register the early-warning signs that you're onto a bad thing. Find out if he's good enough for you...
All men love sex but not all of them like the same things between the sheets. Understanding his 'sex style' is key to taking your sexual experiences from nice to mind blowing! Tammy Nelson, psychotherapist and author of Getting the Sex You Want: Shed Your Inhibitions and Reach New Heights of Passion Together shares some of the most common types, while Los Angeles-based sex therapist Christine Milrod advises on how to please each one.
With a string of allegations about famous faces from Ryan Giggs to Rio Ferdinand you might wonder why some of them weren't caught sooner. Many women don't know what signs to watch out for or simply don't trust their intuition. Here are 10 top signs to look for. Definitely keep in mind you have to balance all the evidence. And consider carefully the signs you pick up on before making any accusations. Proceed with caution if you have a history of unfounded jealousy.
She’s been your rock; when you nearly had a nervous breakdown over the wrong flower arrangements, she kept you calm. From planning the hen party, to shopping for the dress, to helping the groom pick out your ring, to menu tasting and choosing the perfect reception décor; your maid of honour has been a godsend. So what could you possibly buy her to thank her for all her hard work?
Right or wrong, these are the biggest fibs men say they tell us. Do any sound familiar?
Dating can be hard enough without having to put up with the baggage, hang-ups and bad behaviour of single men-folk. We list the top gripes women have with the male of the species as well as one or two things they don't particularly like about us!
Cheating husbands used to outnumber cheating wives, but not anymore, according research undertaken by dating website Coffee and Company. We take a look at some of the most common reasons women play away.
From toys to tantra, here's everything you need to sizzle between the sheets.
The inimitable Goodtime Mama Jojo talks exclusively to iVillage about the basics of burlesque so you can try your hand, leg - and whatever else - at the seductive art...
As women, we're pretty picky when it comes to men. We all have our lists of dos and don’ts when it comes to the opposite sex, but what do men put on their lists when it comes to considering us as potential partners?
Find out how confident you really are, then take action with these eight simple strategies for enhancing yourself.
Post-wedding blues are not uncommon. Just like after any exciting event, once the presents have been unwrapped, the fancy clothes have been put away and the guests have departed, many people can experience a feeling of anti-climax or disappointment. Fortunately there are many ways to keep that smile on your face long after you tie the knot. Here are our top tips for ditching the post-wedding blues.
It's virtually impossible to get rid of all the stress associated with planning your wedding but these top tips can help take the heat off and, more importantly, help you achieve the wedding of your dreams.
Julie Davis gives us her expert advice on how to choose a wedding photographer.
Britney Spears seemed confident she knew how to spot one but are you? We reveal the signs every woman should look out for…
Tantric sex offers more than just whole body orgasms and all night sex. It can increase your energy, sensual awareness and enhance the quality of your life. Tantric sex expert Cassandra Lorius reveals all
Discover the key to a successful relationship. Deepen your partnership and make it work with these 25 tips by Susan Quilliam
In this era of work-till-you-drop jobs and failed marriages, more and more singletons over the age of 40 are finding themselves on the prowl for a partner. So, what's out there for them? Mark Sylvester investigated
It's that time of year when we like to lose weight, get fit and generally overhaul our unhealthy ways. Make sure your sex life doesn't miss out with this guide to revamping your bedroom basics
Find your passion in 2011 with the help of our New Year’s resolutions for singletons.
Could your dating patterns be sabotaging your efforts to get off the singles’ bench? If you never make the first move or always date the wrong men, your dating style may need an overhaul. Here are 20 habits to ditch if you want to find love.
Tracey Cox reveals five simple tricks that you can use to make just about anyone fall in love with you. You won't believe how easy it is to win over the object of your affection
Everyone knows someone who flits from one relationship to the next, who'll finish with one partner only when they've got another one lined up, and who haven't slept alone since 1998. Well, believe it or not, there's an official name for the fear of the terrifyingly exotic world of singledom: anuptaphobia. You can even be treated for it in extreme circumstances.
Stuff the face cream, and never mind the Botox. There's a much more fun way to keep your face and bod looking young, fit and healthy – falling in love. Especially if it involves lots of sex…
At eHarmony we know that searching through thousands of pictures and profiles of other singles can be a disheartening experience. This is why we use our Compatibility Matching System (TM) to match you with other like-minded eHarmony members. The people we introduce you to will be deeply compatible with you, on important levels such as your values, sense of humour and energy levels.
For many money is tight at the moment, but you can still have fun on a shoe-string. Here are a few ways to show your date a good time without blowing the budget.
While for most, Christmas is a time of joy and relaxation, many domestic violence charities such as Refuge, experience a spike in calls to their advice lines during the festive peiord.
Just one kiss can say so much about a couple's relationship and whether they're in the grip of passion or in another phase. iVillage.co.uk's Love and Sex expert Dr Pam Spurr reveals what’s going on with six of the hottest celebrity couples of the moment. Take a look and see if your kissing style is similar to one of theirs.
It's not just Hollywood heartthrobs who can be hard to pin down. iVillage.co.uk Love and Sex Expert Dr Pam Spurr offers her seven seductive strategies to help make the man of your dreams fall head over heels for you, without him realising he's doing it!
Say goodbye to so-so sex with this ultimate guide to getting what you want. 69 sex tips that will drive you both wild
A must-have accessory for any self-respecting footballer is a glammed-up, blingtastic WAG. Test your tabloid trivia and see if you can pair these England Internationals with their other halves.
Your wedding day might be something you've dreamed of since you were a little girl or something you've never thought about until now, but if you're thinking of tying the knot it's action stations regardless. Find out how to plan and stick to a budget, what's worth splurging on and what you can save on, and how to find your dream dress.
Celebrities can be strange old things, especially when it comes to dating. See if you can match up these most unlikely of showbiz couples in our latest Celebrity Concentration game.
How to go on dates without breaking the bank
Got your eye on someone at work? Here's 10 tips for getting it on without getting the sack
From his dancing style to his interest in literature our guide gives you the lowdown on how to tell if a man is good in bed (without taking his clothes off)
Ever wondered what men really want in bed? We've compiled a list of the secret questions most men have, and how you, as his sexy fairy godmother, can solve them for him
Is honesty always the best policy? Not when you?re telling a new lover about how amazing your ex was in bed, or how beer gives you explosive diarrhoea
Hindsight is a wonderful thing, especially when it's someone else's. Bear this in mind if you're giving online dating a go. Your heart is at stake here, so don't spend valuable time making your own mistakes when someone has already made them for you
To help you get into the festive spirit we've rounded-up the best presents for everyone in your life from failsafe gifts for the men in your life to budget beauty ideas and naughty treats. Have a look at our unique christmas gift ideas.
Are you paralysed with fear at the very idea of chatting a man up? Good, because you'd be wasting your time. Chat-up lines belong in bad sitcoms, not in your romantic strategy
What we say and what we mean are never going to be exactly the same. Good thing, too - imagine the chaos if everyone went around giving voice to every thought that passes through their head
With the festive season approaching, if you have some sexy gifts in mind, check out our sultry selection, which includes suggestions for him, her, couples and luxury indulgence - all sure to heat things up on cold winter nights.
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Being single is great - but only if you want it to be. It's not so much fun when you're fed up with dinner for one and can't understand why no-one wants to go out with you. What's keeping you unattached while everyone else gets loved up? Here are 10 habits that could be to blame
We wouldn't want to be stuck in a lift with whoever wrote the dating rulebook. What an uptight killjoy! Don't act keen, don't talk too much, don't get drunk, don't mention your ex, don't mention your mum, don't mention that your flatmate's out and you could do with the company...in short, shut your mouth and keep your legs crossed. And you thought dating was supposed to be fun?
Confident? You may think you're the Goddess of Chutzpah, but are you really? Take Susan Quilliam's quiz to find out just how confident you are and, if needed, follow her advice on how to inject more positivity into your life.
The Greek goddesses have been inspiring women’s self-awareness and touching their lives for thousands of years. How do the seven female divinities affect you? Take this quiz to find out which goddess you’re ruled by – and learn how to awaken, restore and reveal the natural powers of all of the goddesses within you to achieve a healthy balance. By Eileen Livers and Agapi Stassinopoulos
Just imagine you found your all-time soulmate - who just happened to be famous. Who would it be? Take this simple quiz to find out.
At some point in our relationships, with partners, friends and family, we've all wished we'd been more assertive over a situation. How many times have you gone along with a plan you don't agree with?
Don't just dive in - take your time and tease a little with this selection of tantalising toys for teasing pleasure.
The website How Did You Meet? regularly interviews couples about how they met and then writes up their stories. Here we tell the story of Lal and Sue
Weddings abroad are becoming increasingly popular but there are a number of important issues to bear in mind if this is a route you are considering going down. Lisa Burton, a Bridal Expert who has organised over 600 destination weddings, offers her expert advice for planning your dream wedding abroad
Are you paralysed with fear at the very idea of chatting a man up? Good, because you'd be wasting your time. Save your dazzling wit and conversational skills for later on, because 'I fancy you' is a message far better served in silence
If you're reading this you may be one of the two in three women who admit that their fantasy of a one night stand doesn't match the reality. But when there is dimmed lighting, funky music, and possibly one cocktail too many, it becomes all too easy for our moral (and visual standards) to be seriously compromised
Ready to take things one step further? Don't be selfish, try sharing your favourite toys with your man. Check out this selection of tantalising toys for the both of you to enjoy courtesy of LoveHoney.co.uk
Dear Dr Pam, I started seeing this guy a couple of months ago. Things haven’t been going particularly smooth so far but we have great chemistry. When we are together everything seems almost perfect, the problem is that’s not the case when we aren’t together.
So the baby arrived and your relationship has been blown out the window? Fear not, iVillage sex and love expert, Dr Pam Spurr is here to help you get things back on track
iVillage.co.uk sex and love expert, Dr Pam Spurr helps you avoid the pitfalls of pursuing a man fresh out of a break-up
The website How Did You Meet? regularly interviews couples about how they met and then writes up their stories. Here we tell the story of Louise and Ollie.
It is a truth universally acknowledged on the dating scene that the more keen you seem, the less likely you are to succeed with a man. Or is it just a myth?
It's a shame that the language of love is so often reduced to three little words. Why only those three, and why so little? There's a whole library of amorous language out there, waiting to wind its way round your tongue and improve your powers of seduction
While the company behind Viagra has recently created a prototype pill that aims to achieve similar sexual arousal in women, there are plenty of other ways to boost a flagging sex drive. We reveal some alternative libido-enhancing tips to help keep your sex life a sizzling priority
Are you your own worst critic when it comes to your body image? iVillage sex and love expert Dr Pam Spurr advises on how to love your lady lumps and bumps
The website 'How did You Meet?' regularly interviews couples about how they met and then writes up their stories. Here he tells the story of Paul and Karen and the sometimes painful chain of events that led to them getting together
Cheryl and Ashley Cole are the latest high-profile couple to announce they are divorcing while Charlotte Church and Gavin Henson are splitting up after six years together. If you're going through divorce or a major break-up, follow iVillage.co.uk love and sex epxert Dr Pam Spurr's advice to avoid total devastation
Whether you're jetting off to some exotic paradise or slumming it at a summer festival, the last thing you want is some busy body coming across your toy. These handbag friendlies from Lovehoney.co.uk are cute enough to hang your keys from... but best saved for the bedroom!
'I'm 33 - the same age as Jesus when he died. Not such a good year for Jesus... quite a good year for me!' Angela Griffin takes time out to talk about being a sexy, confident thirty-something
Whether through patriotism, romance or the prospect of an extra national holiday, Britain seems gripped by royal wedding fever. Here at iVillage we love a good wedding, and in celebration of Prince William and Kate Middleton's big day we've put together all manner of goodies including fashion galleries, royal wedding trivia, celeb engagement rings and an exclusive interview with the man who will be dressing Kate's bridal hair.
Flirting is fun. But for those of us who can't call ourselves pros, the thought of approaching another person with a persona that oozes self-confidence, simply fills us with dread
iVillage sex and love blogger Dr Pam Spurr's new book How to Be a Happy Human - 10 Essential Principles to Change Your Life is available now. Here she shares one of her many secrets for happiness with iVillage users...
Assume the position with Karma Sutra bedsheets, tickle your fancy with feathers or make a connection with a USB-rechargeable vibrator. From classic toys to cute new offerings, it's the latest gallery from Lovehoney.co.uk...
It's been a long, cold and dreary winter but spring's here and there's no better time than to start a fresh love search. iVillage.co.uk love and sex expert Dr Pam Spurr offers six tips to help you find love
Often, the wise way to kick-start your relationship - and get him to indulge you - is to start by indulging him first! iVillage.co.uk love and sex expert Dr Pam Spurr offers some simple strategies to use on him that'll guarantee you're enjoying some fringe benefits soon!
Spring is slinking in and we've sourced 10 saucy toys to awaken your senses...
What with the never-ending list of alleged cheating, sex-texting men in the press recently - Ashley Cole, John Terry, Vernon Kay and Tiger Woods - it makes you wonder: didn't their wives and girlfriends have a clue about what they were up to? How could all of them have been so blind to their partners' bad behaviour? iVillage.co.uk love and sex expert Dr Pam Spurr tells you how to spot a love cheat
Valentine's Day: if these words fill you with dread, you're not alone but if you're a single woman who still wants to get her rocks off without dealing with the hassle of dating sex; there is another way. Sex toys...
As Katie Price and Alex Reid embark on their honeymoon following a much-publicised whirlwhind romance iVillage.co.uk love and sex blogger Dr Pam Spurr reveals what leads some to tie the knot in a flash
You don't need stacks of cash to show that special someone just how much you care. Be inspired with our top 20 ideas of low-cost romantic dates, gifts and gestures.
Valentine's Day can be a toughie if you’re single. Shops are flooded with hearts and flowers while everywhere you turn there is advertising aimed at smug couples that only serve to taunt your solo status. It's as though the special day for lovers was invented just to make singles feel inadequate. This year, instead of wallowing in self-pity, make your Valentine's Day one to remember with our suggestions on how to survive sans cupid.
Ahh, the schoolgirl crush! Lessons whiled away in wistful wonderings, Pythagoras' theorem substituted for scribbled hearts and secret notes. 'Course, these days it's all digital love with textual predictors and facebook pokes... Stroll with us down memory lane as we revisit the oldskool love games of our infatuated youth...</
A selection of sex toys and accessories, suitable for couples and singles alike
A selection of sex toys and accessories, suitable for couples and singles alike
A selection of sex toys and accessories, suitable for couples and singles alike
Looking for a bit of extra Christmas spice? Ease the pressure and take some festive pleasure in our selection of boudoir-licious gifts...
The sun's shining, the temperature's rising – summer is officially in full swing. Tanned biceps, half naked bodies and the waft of coconut oil can tempt even the most no-nonsense of holidaymakers into a passionate clinch. So, after the bikini's been packed away and you're wondering whether your summer romance will last, ask yourself these questions...
iVillagers discuss mismatched sex-drives with sex therapist Bettina Arndt
Helen Dugdale is the author of Bridal Moments, a survival guide to wedding chaos
Helen Dugdale is the author of Bridal Moments, a survival guide to wedding chaos
iVillagers talk about what the message boards mean to them
Life's too short to put up with the Date from Hell. Here's how to escape
Life's too short to put up with the Date from Hell. Here's how to escape
How to turn a disastrous first date into a fabulous relationship (maybe)
How to turn a disastrous first date into a fabulous relationship (maybe)
It's easy to tell whether a bloke is interested. You know the body language: eye contact and all that. What's harder is knowing whether he's interested in a relationship with you, or in getting his rocks off in time for breakfast.
Having difficulty with height difference? What do you do if he's Sacha Baron Cohen and you're Isla Fisher?
You're in the mood to rip some sheets, here's the <b>sex position</b> that's ideal for you.
So your man is a little on the average side? Never mind, there are still some fun positions.
There are still a few sex positions you can enjoy even if you're not the most flexible girl in the world
If your partner is over-endowed then here are a couple of sex positions to make the most of this
So you have the flexibility of Madonna? Then give these positions a try.
You've been working all day but still in the mood for love. Here are a couple of sex positions for you.
If you're around the same size or he's smaller then here are the sex positions for you.
Lesley Pearse is a No.1 bestseller and one of the UK’s top five female authors with sales of over four million copies of her novels in the UK alone. Her latest book, The Promise, is available to buy now.
Planning the most important day of your life is an incredibly daunting task. But fear not, with this detailed guide covering everything from the hen do to the dress we're here to help create the wedding of your dreams.
Are women who have affairs with well-known married men entitled to a slice of fame?
iVillage.co.uk Community Awards 2009 - the categories. Best Friend Award, Mum of the Year Award, Husband/Man of the year Award, Good Citizen Award, Most Charitable Award
The iVillage.co.uk Community Awards 2009, is an official recognition of men and women who have changed their own or others' lives for the better during 2008
Life coach, sex advisor and agony aunt Dr Pam Spurr has just written a brand new book Sizzling Sex - The Sex Doctor's 250 Hottest Tips, Tricks And Techniques. Read on for her top tips to liven up your sexual positions
With Halloween around the corner, don't let your inner-dating-demons get the better of you...
You met a gorgeous man on holiday and had the time of your life, you're sure he's your soul mate and he feels the same, but now you're back home you can't help but wonder if your romance can survive in the real world. If you don't want to let the sun set on your holiday fling then follow our tips and make him the real thing
Don't let the credit crunch ruin your sex life! Check out these cheap and cheerful sex toys, all for under a fiver, from the iVillage sex shop. And you won't spend anything on postage and packaging, because it's free! These goodies won't blow your budget, but they will blow your mind
Thousands of women in the UK experience daily violence or abuse and two women in England and Wales are killed every week by a current or former partner. To raise awareness and to help prevent women from a lifetime of abuse, Refuge has launched an 'Early Warning Signs' campaign
Tips on how to tell a new boyfriend that you love him
A brand new dating survey reveals that a staggering 84 per cent of single Brits struggle to find a date - find out why
Breaking up is hard to do especially when he did the dumping, but our relationship guru, Tracey Cox, is here to guide you through the dark days after the split
They'd all make the long-list of I'm A Celebrity Get Me Out Of Here!, but that's about all they've got in common. Get a load of these unlikely showbiz couples...
Up your orgasmic potential by discovering how to sexercise your sex muscle and learn what to eat with our orgasm-boosting recipe ideas
Why a great relationship doesn't have to obey the rules of attraction
A guide to G-Spots and Female Ejaculation from world renowned sexpert Tracey Cox
Why do younger men love older women? and how can you snare a young buck? find out...
Put some romance back into your relationship and head out into the great outdoors for a bit of summer loving.
Hen nights aren't the same without some silly games and naughty accessories, so to make sure your hen has a spankingly good time and check out our gallery for some inspiration on what to buy.
Tips on how to spice up your sex life during the summer
Is he flirting with me or just being friendly? Sometimes it's impossible to tell, but fear not, Tracey Cox is here with some expert pointers
Sex isn't about the destination; it's about the means of travelling. Well, that's a lovely sentiment, but if it takes five buses, two trains and a plane to arrive at Destination Orgasm, the journey can get a tad tedious! That's why I want to teach you the way to Destination Faster Orgasms instead. Men rarely have problems reaching orgasm. Women usually do. The good news is, there's a lot you can do to speed up your orgasms
Tracey Cox investigates the problem of jealousy in relationships
Tracey Cox offers tips on how to cope with jealousy
Advice on dealing with divorce - straight from the mouth of a divorce lawyer
When you're on the dating scene, you want to stand out from the crowd. So don't settle for the same old first-date ideas: a drink at the pub, or dinner if you're feeling adventurous. Here are some sparky date ideas he'll never forget - from exploring Mars to a shaken-and-stirred cocktail masterclass.
Internet dating makes it easy to find a man, and fits perfectly into our busy, web-connected lives. But have we lost something along the way?
Does the perfect gentleman really exist? You love your man, but sometimes his little habits are too much to bear. Nobody's perfect but you can't deny that sometimes you just have to get those little man moans off your chest. Some of our iVillage community members share their niggles. Sound familiar?
An author talks about the problem of daughter envy
Tracey Cox offers advice on how to be his best sex ever
Advice on when is the best time to propose for a woman, and how to do it
Advice on what to buy your loved-one on Valentine's Day
Don't beat around the red rose bush with candlelit dinner on 14 February. Satisfy your burning desire this Valentine's Day with our latest selection of naughty gifts - all with their own romantic (and kinky) twist. They would make Saint Valentine blush!
Tracey Cox dispels some common myths about sex
At the tender age of 26, I said I wouldn't be home for Christmas. Even amidst the wailing and the gnashing of teeth I knew this was an important moment in my life
Gift guide for all the girls in your life
Gift guide for all the men in your life
Paula Hall, a sexual and relationship psychotherapist answers your relationship questions
Dating different partners is meant to give a world of man-insight before you find 'the one'. But moving on after a relationship ends is not always as simple as it seems
Dr Pam Spurr looks at six ways to make your love life festive and saucy this year
Have you found the tried and tested methods of meeting men, such as flirting at the gym and in bars, are becoming rather stale, not to mention fruitless? Well, those tired techniques aren't the only way to find true love...
They say life is short, but let's face it - in a world of routine, debt and stress, it can seem like a long walk on a slow treadmill. We've found 10 real-world ways to take your life from Groundhog Day to grand - in no time flat!
It's still two days before your wedding and those long-lost relatives from far-flung locations arrive in preparation for the big day
The photographic collection of memories will be different for every bride, but use this list as a starting point to brief your photographer with
Tracey Cox reveals the common problems (and solutions) to your man's sexual issues
There comes a time in a girl's life when paying her own bills, choosing the right kind of mortgage and saving for a new pair of Jimmy Choos all lose their allure. The solution? Marry a millionaire! Lucy Mangan tells you how
W. Bruce Cameron our Guy Decoder is a nationally syndicated columnist and author of 8 Simple Rules for Dating My Teenage Daughter (on which the ABC sitcom was based) and the bestseller How to Remodel a Man.
Everyone knows women find it harder to orgasm than men do. Here's a rundown of the reasons why, and how to increase your chances of enjoying hassle-free sex like he does
Your big day may be over, but how can you store your wedding dress so that it stays in perfect condition? Here is how best to preserve your dress
The process of telling others about your sexuality is often referred to as 'coming out'. Here are some tips from Stonewall on how to make the process easier
Follow these tips to help make you look and feel more fabulous every day
Step out of your comfort zone, embrace your independent streak and remind yourself why you are such a unique creature by trying your hand at one of these fun and quirky activities
It's wonderful to lose yourself in your loved one but how healthy is it for your long-term plans to stay exclusive? Discover how to balance independence with involvement and make your relationship stronger
Did you know that the clitoris is the only organ in the human body built solely for pleasure, and that in some women it is up to 14 centimetres long? Find out more about yours with this updated user's guide
On Valentine's Day, love-struck Britons spend millions on chocolates, flowers, dinners, weekends away and other romantic gestures. Don't get sucked in. Here's how to avoid the great Valentine's Day rip off
Valentine's Day used to be a time when singles sent anonymous cards to secret crushes. But retailers have since jumped on the bandwagon, and made it all about couples. Singles have their say...
Meet the women who have decided to dodge baby sick and nappies by remaining child-free
Terrified of your first encounter with your new man's parents? Fear not, find out how to navigate potential in-law territory with these top tips
Like books, men fall into various categories, from the shy guy to the joker. Take a look at these personality profiles, and next time you are out and about, see if you can spot them
You should now understand yourself better and know more about men. So this week, I want to take you to the next level. You will face the fears that potentially hold you back from being happy within yourself and ultimately finding love.
By now you've had a taste of something new and you should understand a little bit more about yourself. This is a process we all need to go through to improve our love game and strengthen our relationships.
Christmas can be a stressful time of year. But it's particularly hard to cope when you've experienced a divorce or separation. Solutions coach and psychologist Dr Pam Spurr advises on how to handle it
you have lost someone close to you this year, then the festive sesason can be emotionally tricky. Solutions coach and psychologist Dr Pam Spurr is here to help you cope
Breaking up is never easy, but you can't mope about forever. Get out of the house and rejoin the land of the living with these top tips to re-align your soul, and get back in the game
Dr Pam Spurr explains how being kind and compassionate can help you recharge and find real enjoyment in life.
iVillage.co.uk asks solicitor Sam Longworth what civil partnerships for same-sex couples means in the eyes of the law
iVillage.co.uk asks The Times religious expert Ruth Gledhill, what civil partnerships for same-sex couples means in the eyes of the church
Family solicitor Naim Qureshi outlines the current legal situation for unmarried couples on iVillage.co.uk
There are many issues that affect the happiness or unhappiness that couples experience. One of the biggest culprits is finding a good work-love-life balance, relationships expert Dr Pam Spurr advises
iVillage UK: Now that 'to google' has become a verb, you can get the goss on just about anyone by googling them, but beware - you might have been googled, too!
When you go on a romantic break, you expect it to be, well, romantic. iVillage UK has tips on how to keep a holiday with your partner from turning into the holiday from hell
When iVillagers discover that their other half is cheating, how do they get revenge? Discover the wicked ways in which readers have punished wayward partners
The boys at AskMen.com reveal how men deal with broken hearts and rejection...
All women are wrong. Wrong, wrong, wrong. Well, we knew that already, didn't we? Men have been saying it for millennia and they're always right, so it must be true. But, hang on a bit, it's not men who are saying i: it's our own kind. It's other women. Louise Candlish gets to the bottom of why we women are attacking each other
Result wear applies to any outfit which more or less guarantees action. It doesn't necessarily mean sex, but it usually does. Dating Doyenne, Sally Ann Lasson discusses
The male and female brains work in different ways. Fact. Get the male perspective on those mistakes only men could make
The difference between men and women. Ways men take things too literally and some solutions to the problems they cause
Some men just can't commit - they are emotionally unavailable. June's in love with Peter, but he won't commit. Cadillac Carter tells the two sides of their story
You want to know the truth? Men identify and explain their most common lies
'Treat 'em mean, keep 'em keen' - so the saying goes. But how mean is too mean? Here are some insiders' tips (from a man!) on being the perfect, sophisticated mean machine
Find out why men are fascinated by women's breasts from our Mr Answer Man
Mr Answer Man reveals why men find relationship chat so tricky
To help you navigate your romantic relationships, pyschologist George Weinberg, author of 'Why Men Won't Commi: Getting What You Both Want Without Playing Games', offers fascinating insight into male behaviour
Men don't pay much attention to nails, unless they are dirty
Are all men obsessed with the shape and size of their tackle?
Men often believe you're flirting with them even when you're not. Read the ten ways you can unknowingly send out the wrong signal
You've chosen each other, but you certainly haven't chosen each other's parents. As the festive season looms, Matt Whyman puts forward the male perspective
Mr Answer Man tells us whether men prefer knickers to thongs
Skinny women are sexy? Mr Answer Man gives us the lowdown
Body language basics. The foolproof signs that a man wants to be much more than friends by Tracey Cox, author of SuperFlirt
Why are men frightened by groups of laughing women at parties? Mr Answer Man replies
Why are men attracted to older women? Experience, wisdom, confidence and lots of practice in bed, says Vincent Jackson
Usually, men just aren't sure at first - of how they feel, of how you feel and of what might happen if they make the first move
Can asking questions about your boyfriend's ex-girlfriends can lead to trouble?
It can be fun, dangerous, a total high but can also break your heart. Relationships expert Susan Quilliam advises on the joys and perils of casual sex
Should you feel upset if your man doesn't believe in Valentine's Day? Mr Answer Man sticks up for the men who don't do one-day romance
What propels him finally to propose? Vincent Jackson talks about men and the marriage taboo
Find out what men perceive as common mistakes in new relationships
Demeaning to women or a legitimate career choice? iVillagers discuss their views on the world's oldest profession
Every couple goes through the odd rocky patch, but nothing makes things worse for an unhappy couple than Valentine's Day. Find out how to to cope
iVillagers share their dating tales
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Studies suggest one in three married British women has had, or is having an affair. Why?
iVillage expert Tracey Cox offers advice on ending a sexual drought
iVillagers reveal their top strategies for coping with all things Christmas including dinner and gifts for him
Why not own up to your favourite fantasies and act them out with your partner for what could be the lustiest sex you've had in years
You've mastered the sexual basics, and you're ready to up the naughty ante and experiment. But before you introduce the thrill of fantasy to your bedroom, there are three main things you need to know
Many men and women find that the ageing process affects their sexual response. Here are some hints and tips on how to have richer and more satisfying sex in your golden years
Discover how to choose and wear diamonds and jewels that enhance your own unique style and personality
When a man denies his partner sex, some women wonder whether he no longer fancies her, or if he is having an affair. 9 times out of 10 this is not the case, but the couple must work together to sort it out, find out how
When you meet a man face-to-face, you can quickly determine whether he's worthy of your heart. But how can you tell when you meet online? we highlight some of the warning signals to watch out for
If your relationship is experiencing mismatched sex drives or loss of interest in sex, find out what you can do to boost your love life
You're on your own again and you feel you should start looking for someone new. But are you really ready for love? Read the signs that tell you you're ready to love again
Discover how a little creativity and fun can rejuvenate your sexual relationship and make a real difference, in just 48 hours
If you can't get away on holiday this summer, or your plans are weeks away, find out how to create a hot and steamy tropical holiday experience at home, without forking out on an expensive flight ticket
iVillage talks to three women who have experienced sexual problems with a partner, and subsequently visited a sex therapist. Here they share their experiences
Does your man need to know your previous sexual history? When it comes to your 'number', is honesty the best policy, or should you choose the little white lie? Read this before you decide
Relate Counsellor, Julia Cole, talks to iVillage men and women about the issues surrounding mismatched sex drives in relationships, and how to boost desire
While you can spot from a hundred yards that your man's in a mood, he seems oblivious to your moments of misery. When it comes to picking up the negative emotions of others, is women's intuition always such a good thing
Relate Counsellor, Sex Therapist and author
Lots of the concerns raised during this chat were to do with distance and friendships, insecurity and stress; concerns that can, and do, affect most relationships now and again. Find out how to cope with long distance love
So you're dumped, or you've dumped him, whatever; you're single again and it doesn't feel good. You can't wait to fall in love again; but is fast-tracking your next relationship always the wisest move?
Love is all around us - and don't you just know it on Valentine's Day, but what if you're single? It is possible to feel Significant, without having an Other; try our knockout tips for how to love yourself on 14 February
Are your bedroom basics becoming boring? Spice up your repertoire and reignite the fires of passion in your relationship with these top tips from The Lovers' Guide
Are his moans and groans sounding suspiciously over-acted? Could he be faking? If so... why?
Valentine's Day is coming, when more men propose than on any other day of the year. So will your guy get down on one knee? Or alternatively, will you?
Discover how to bring love into your life with these spells and potion: find a lover, kindle lust and be your most enchanting
Paula Hall is a Relate Counsellor and Sex Therapist as well as a Young People's Counsellor. Get advice from Paula and other counsellor
Denise joined Relate in 1990 and qualified as a counsellor two years later. She has worked tirelessly over the last decade to expand the range of her specialisms and expertise, becoming a highly skilled practitioner and qualified psychosexual therapist
If you're a bride-to-be looking for a smooth ride up the aisle, enlist the help of the iVillage wedding planner with month by month tips to help ensure you enjoy a fun and stress-free day
This free four-part special will help you to recognise your weak spots and increase your confidence and self-esteem in all areas of your life. Get started now
Nightmare before Christmas: iVillagers share their hilarious memories of past Christmas disasters.
The average couple alternate between two or three positions, usually a combination of missionary and rear entry. Brush up your technique, and discover the best positions for men and women
Are you a constant worry wort? Whether it's feeling anxious about your career, social life, sex life or size of your behind, follow these tips and get a handle on your stress
Many of us madly overspend in from time to time, but for oniomania sufferers, this shopping frenzy is no laughing matter
By believing the myths surrounding domestic violence we allow the problem to continue. Learn the truth
A third of domestic violence begins when a woman is pregnant. Read Mel's terrifying story
Inspiring stories of terror, strength and survival from women who have escaped domestic violence
Read Janet's terrifying story of abuse and how she found the strength to leave
Discover how Refuge helped Catherine escape her violent marriage
When her husband's violent attacks caused her to miscarry their baby Michelle knew she had to leave
Even though Stacey's husband's demands for sex were dominating their life, she never imagined he'd rape her
Beat the festive rush. Get ready for Christmas. 30 handy tips from iVillage Experts and members of the community
The bad boy appeal. We know they're bad news, but we're charmed every time. Louise Candlish reveals why
Christmas may seem far off - but preparations are already underway - but what about a man? With our unique ten-step plan you can be sure you won't be alone under the mistletoe
Discover the essential ingredients of a successful fund-raising bash. Party experts divulge their secrets
Friendships can be as tumultuous as the most passionate love affair. Susan Quilliam outlines some of the most common friendship dilemmas and how to deal with them
Christine from Relate answered questions from iVillagers struggling with their relationships
One-third of all households in the UK now own some type of sex toy - that's more than own a cat. So, lose the embarrassment and check out our hands-on guide to choosing, buying and using toys that make you go yes, yes, YES
There's a fine line between a bit of harmless flirting and disloyalty to your partner. How to resist temptation
Men suffer from sex problems too. Learn how to spot the most common problems and help him tackle the issue
iVillage talks to three women who have married and divorced, about how they coped with the process, and how it affected them later in love and life
Buying a wedding dress. Do you know your chiffon from your organza? Take some tips from a bride-to-be
Can't get your ex out of your head? Louise Candlish shares eight pearls of 'ex' wisdom
The six key questions that will help you reach that important relationship decision - whether to commit, or whether to call it a day
Issues to consider before the wedding day. Exercises to help you check your expectations are aligned
Ten women from the My Affair message board reveal how mobile phones played a part in their secret liaison
Looking for Mr Right? Maybe you're not selling yourself right. A new self-help book tells you how to get into the marriage market, but can we Brits get with The Program? Rachel Roberts reports
A community story written by cl-gaynort8 about the loss of her granddaughter due to divorce
Community story by ivillager, Phil Sayer, who took complete charge of her family when her husband became a paraplegic after a road accident
The ten worst habits of the (almost) perfect couple. Susan Quilliam outlines the problems and how to zap them
Make your big day to be that little bit different, take a look at these marriage customs from around the world
Online datin: meet the man of your dreams from the comfort of your own home
Why brides should make a wedding speech of their own. Real brides give their advice
If you suspect your partner is having an affair or have been hurt by a partner's infidelity, here's expert advice to help you cope and get your life back on track
The ten most common relationship difficulties couples' experience over Christmas and how to solve them. Susan Quilliam advises
Meaningful wedding gifts don?t have to cost a lot. iVillage women advise on how to congratulate the new couple without overspending
Brilliant gift ideas from iVillagers for friends, family and colleagues
There is a fine line between having an affair, and contemplating an affair. Is emotional infidelity the same as physical infidelity? One iVillager turned to the Coping With Infidelity message board for the answers
With relationship breakdown on the increase, what's the secret to making a second partnership work? Learn from your mistakes and be ready to tackle problems. Susan Quilliam advises
Of course you love your family, but weeks of Christmas celebrations can take their toll. Susan Quilliam helps you to cope
He comes home late, hides his phone and is secretive about his whereabouts. Is he cheating? Read what iVillagers have to say about it from the Copeing With Infidelity message board
iVillagers spill the beans on some of their worst dating disasters! Warning, not for the faint hearted
Every moment, someone somewhere is considering taking his or her life. You may know that person. You may even be that person. Susan Quilliam advises
3 iVillage women take us through the seasons of their lives and reflect on what lessons they have learnt over the years
12 iVillagers describe the personal and emotional gains they have received from the iVillage message board
A holiday romance can sweep you off your feet and also leave you feeling deserted and heartbroken. Follow these tips to ensure your summer fling goes with a swing
Would you like to make your skin glow, your hair shine, feel more relaxed and happy and improve your sex-life into the bargain? Well, the solution is in your own hands..
Forget the image of a mistress as a man's plaything. Today's 'other women' not only know exactly what they want, but how to get it..
Nothing can prepare you for the death of a loved one. Here, Gaynor Turley tells us how her experience of grieving led her to train to be a bereavement counsellor
Discover your personality type. Read on for indepth analysis, by Susan Quilliam
Alison Mearns refects on her personal experiences and asks if there is a male equivalent of the domestic goddess
Nine women talk about motherhood, work and the choices they've made about their live
Secret relationships. For ten years Antoinette Hardy has concealed her relationship from her parents ... Here, she talks to others about keeping the biggest secret of all
Money, sex and arguments are at the root of most couples' discontent. Susan Quilliam tackles the most common relationship problem
Journeying solo? That's no reason to compromise says dating columnist Rachel Roberts
Would love be enough to see you through if you had to care for your husband full-time? Julia Gregson talks to two women about their experiences
Dating is tricky enough, even when you haven't got kids. So how do you handle it when you have some of the little darlings in tow? Mary Ambrose investigates
It's easy to keep the flames of passion burning bright when you are enjoying the first heady days of a relationship. But will they be enough to keep you warm when you take the plunge and move in together
It's true. If you want happy and supportive relationships in your life, you need to learn the art of encouragement. Stephanie Dowrick, author of The Universal Heart, shares her wisdom
25 dates in one night. Rachel Roberts reports on the world of speed dating
Get ready to have oh-oh-so-sensational sex with Emily Dubberley's guide to orgasmic positions for women
A separation need not signify the end, but the start of a healing process - Susan Quilliam explain
A kiss is never just a kiss: it's a symbol of love, lust, friendship... Tracing the history of kissing
How does your birth order affect your relationships? Find out what your birth order means for your most compatible relationship match
Are you a leader or a follower? Bossy or a pleaser? Find out how your birth order influences your personality
Could birth order be the reason why one partner is selfish in bed and another is a creative lover? Find out what birth order may have to do with your sex life
Learn how to love yourself with these five tips extracted from the book, The 10-Minute Life Coach by Fiona Harrold
Change your life for good with these tried-and-trusted life-coaching technique
From being honest about your goals to conquering conflict - six ways to fine-tune your relationship
Whether you want to re-invent yourself, redesign your career, enhance dating confidence or simply work less and earn more - this is the place for you. Find out all about Fiona Harrold's brilliant life-coaching courses
Reinvent yourself with life coach Fiona Harrold. Learn the art of true reinvention - from the inside out. Week one - dig deep
Reinvent yourself with life coach Fiona Harrold. Learn the art of true reinvention - from the inside out. Week one - Who do you want to be?
Reinvent yourself with life coach Fiona Harrold. Learn the art of true reinvention - from the inside out. Week three - take a good look at your perspective
Look the part. What are you saying about yourself through your appearance and the clothes you wear? Life coaching with Fiona Harrold
Reinvent yourself with life coach Fiona Harrold. Learn the art of true reinvention - from the inside out. Week five - faking it
Reinvent yourself with life coach Fiona Harrold. Learn the art of true reinvention - from the inside out. Week six - the essence of reinvention is through change
Welcome to our six week life-coaching workshop. Learn the art of true reinvention - from the inside out
Biography of Britain's best-known life-coach
The festive season can take its toll on your relationship. Susan Quilliam looks at the main problems couples face at Christmas
A week in the life of a refuge. Real-life story of life in a women's refuge
It's that time of year again and we all know what to expec: holly and ivy, mulled wine and mince pies, and 'festive' family get-togethers. But will it be his parents' place or yours
Dim the lights and come close. Prepare yourself for spine-shivering moments as iVillagers share their real-life encounters with the paranormal
It's one of the worst pieces of news a woman can hear. Susan Quilliam advises on how you can support, understand and help a friend with breast cancer
The secret of happiness is to have a purpose to life. Set and achieve your life goals. The Happiness Workshop week four
Happines: it may be the greatest thing that we possess, but how exactly do we go about getting it? Try our twelve-step plan for a more fulfilled life
Week one of the happiness worksho: you are what you eat, so follow a healthy lifestyle
The Happiness Workshop week tw: have a happy attitude to life and you'll cope with its ups and downs
The Happiness Workshop week thre: happy relationships are the secret of contentment. Create a positive social network
Don't leave the success of your marriage to fate; read Susan Quilliam's wise words on getting the balance right once and for all.
Looking for a special present to celebrate your anniversary? Check out our year by year gift guide
Village Community Leaders tell their personal success stories
Puzzled or worried about sex. Read the answers to 45 questions you've never dared to ask
The secret of incredible sex is to start again from scratch. Advice and tips for fantastic foreplay, tempting tongue work, new sex positions and more orgasms
Being in love means being together - right? But what if you live miles apart? Susan Quilliam advises on how to survive the distance
Your first time with a new partner can be a nerve-wracking experience, especially for the young and sexually inexperienced. Susan Quilliam guides us through the basic
Susan Quilliam picks her top ten self-help books covering every aspect of personal development from self-esteem, through love, sex, family to supporting other people
Whether you are single or part of a couple, enjoy the heat and let iVillage help you to have your most sizzling summer of love yet
After a 14-month engagement, iVillage member tiggernumber1 (Michelle) married her fiance Martin. Here's what she had to say about the big day
Wedding ideas from dresses to location from the bridal gown maker of the stars, Vera Wang. Take a look at these beautiful ideas from new book, Vera Wang on Weddings
Married women often boast that they never have sex. Fiona Gibson lets us know why she?s happy to wait
Moving from the city to the countryside is more than just a change of scenery. Relying on your husband to be your best mate, lover and companion can take a toll on your relationship
Men and women have different ways of arguing. Women love to get vocal whereas men slip off quietly, away from the noise
From The Surrendered Single by Laura Doyle, published by Simon & Schuster. Copyright 2002 by Laura Doyle
Give up the idea of a perfect man - from The Surrendered Single by Laura Doyle
Seven ways to attract the man who's right for you. From The Surrendered Single by Laura Doyle
How can we combat the green-eyed monster
What to do when you love your partner but don't want to make love. How to improve your sex life and get your libido back on track
Can your relationship survive football season? Yes, if you play the right game, says Susan Quilliam
Sexual satisfaction - how to get i: iVillage
iVillagers give the low down on what they look for in a man
Discover the distinction between secrets and lies
Couple counsellor, Susan Quilliam, reviews Kim Cattrall's book on the female orgasm
Susan Quilliam explains how to ease your way back in to the dating world after the end of a long term relationship
Discover the benefits of mediation as a means of avoiding a messy divorce
Susan Quilliam explains the dangers and joys of a relationship where there is a big age difference
Sex and the city star gives advice on 'The art of the female orgasm
Think your relationship is built to last or are cracks starting to form? Our audit will help reveal potential trouble spots
Recently single and fed up? Here are 52 reasons to smile again
Laura Doyle's book, The Surrendered Wife, preaches that the only way to keep a marriage sweet is by relinquishing all control to husband. Anna McNamee spends a weekend living by Laura's instructions
A drunken fumble at a party or a well-planned first time experience with condoms to hand? iVillagers spill the beans on their first time
If he pulls out I won't get pregnant. Men are always ready for sex...10 common beliefs about sex uncovered
The first rule to online dating is writing a great personal statement. Check out our dating dos and don'ts before logging on
Sex is the secret ingredient for successful ageing reveals recent research
What happens when a deep-rooted family secret comes out?
Three relationship dilemmas. Three spells. Will their supernatural assignment put some magic back into their lives
Are vibrators a girl's best friend? Cadillac Carter gets the buzz on the benefits of sex toys
Ten years ago Lynn Griffiths was diagnosed with breast cancer. She has since battled with three subsequent cases of cancer and survived. Read her powerful story
When one of you is as neat as a pin and the other lives in a state of pure sloth, how is a couple to compromise
Are you online dating? Here's how to keep it safe both on and offline. The Suzy Lamplugh Trust advises
Online love has a different profile to real-time love and it can bring a totally different set of relationship problems. Susan Quilliam advise
It's safe, healthy and fun to fantasise. Find out more in week four of the great sex workshop
Communication is important to a great sex life. Find out in week three of the great sex workshop
Exercises to improve your sensual self. Find out all about them in week two of the great sex workshop
What are the qualities in a mate or lover that get my motor running? Find out in week one of the 30 days of great sex workshop
It's time to put the passion back into your relationship.This four-week plan will help you and your partner get closer - in and out of bed
Holidays are the perfect time to replenish energy, rekindle the passion and make time for love. But, advises Susan Quilliam, don't forget to do it throughout the year too
Leaving an abusive relationship is the hardest decision a woman can make. Sharon Waugh shares the benefit of her experience
Sexually transmitted infections - get the facts
Does your love life need an MOT? From abstinence to eating, life coach Judith Verity offers eight tips to perk up your sex life
One in four adults suffer from significant depression, and an increasing number of these are men
Money is still the root of all evil and our relationship problems. Anna Blundy talks about cash
Does a woman's relationship with her father determine her choice in men
Men are used to women looking a certain way, but we love our men warts, beer-bellies and all
Women's negative image of themselves is so prevalent we tend to overlook it. Kathy Watson explores the destructive impact thinking negatively can have on our relationships
Do you worry about the state of your body in bed? Don?t let body blues blight a potentially glorious sex life
For Women Only - the history of female sexuality. A Revoltutionary Guide to Reclaiming Your Sex Life by Jennifer Berman, M.D and Laura Berman
Work - is it the perfect relationship excuse or the cause of many relationship problems? Fiona Gibson explores
Find out how confident you really are. Improve your self-confidence in 8 simple steps
Lack of desire is a phase many of us go through. Susan Quilliam outlines the reasons why you might go off se: iVillage
Porn is a tricky habit to live with. Susan Quilliam outlines how to deal with your partner's interest in porn
Find out why involvement with a friend's affair can give you the sleepless night
Recovering from a failed relationship is tough. Move on from the past and find love again in 5 step
Getting your relationship back on track after an affair. Susan Quilliam shows us how to do it in the third part of our series on affairs
It's time to give your sex life a boost. This week-long plan will help you and your partner discover new ways to satisfy each other sexually
A weekend awa: will it make or break your relationship: iVillage
Your partner has cheated. Do you stay together or split up? Susan Quilliam offers advice on making this decision
To get the most out of the Kama Sutra you will need a lover with a penis like a bendy toy and the ability to place his legs behind his ears and keep them there
You may have felt suspicious for a while or the news may have come out of the blue. But now it's out in the open. Your man has cheated on you
Are we all like our mothers? Yes we are according to Fiona Gibson who talks about the influence of our mothers on our lives
Cadillac Carter discusses the unconditional love and support that is associated with mothers. However it does not come naturally to all
Laura Doyle's book, The Surrendered Wife preaches that the only way to keep a marriage sweet is by relinquishing all control to husband. Anna McNamee spends a weekend living by Laura's instruction
For some, falling in love is a once in a lifetime experience. For others it's a habit that becomes an addiction, leaving sufferers helpless as they continually search for their next love fix
Spotting the tell-tale signs of an abusive man. Tips and advice
Having a threesome is one thing, but what do you do in the morning? Cadillac Carter spills the bean
Mystery nights out? Boisterous children and a husband glued to the TV rule out any hope of a romantic dinner date for two. Jane Nixon lets us into a week of her life
Venus in Aries danger zone: Venus stays in Aries for the next four months. This has a different implication for each star sign. Find out more
Are you tempted to have an affair? Do you doubt your man?s fidelity? According to Maggie Hyde it?s all in the stars. So, sign by sign, we look at how loyal a lover you really are
The world is divided into three categories of men; those who know where the clitoris is, those who don?t and those who are still looking
Boasting about a lively sex life can leave friends feeling inadequate
Do you ever look back with regret? Lisa Marks examines what happens when you feel you?ve missed an opportunity for love
Arguing with friends is often more traumatic than arguing with a partner. Fiona Gibson investigate
Feeling blase about Valentine's Day? Don't be so dull. It's the perfect excuse for romantic trickery, says Sally Ann Lasson
Have a week of sex. Follow Susan Quilliam's relationships tips and Valentine's Day will be the exciting climax of seven days of loving
If you're feeling bogged down by friends, family or your partner, refresh all your relationships with Susan Quilliam's plan
Can't get the man you want. Follow these foolproof tips to get a date
Change can have an enormous impact on your life. Be prepared for coping with change with Caro Handley?s eight-point plan
After years of emotional, verbal and physical abuse, Laura decided to break all contact with her mother. Read her moving story
Parties are breeding grounds for embarrassing blunders. Cope with the worst of them with Life Coach Caro Handley's tip:
No matter how well organised our lives are, we all get in a flap from time to time. Follow Caro Handley?s plan for a flap-free life
Here's the dream. Christmas Day dawns with the two of you happy and in love. Here's the reality. Christmas Eve evening is spent rowing
How long should you wait before contacting a date. Dating Doyenne shares her wisdom
Christmas is the season to be jolly, but some people want to spend it alone. Christine Aziz investigate
Follow these eleven rules to survive the Christmas party season and keep your dignity intact
The Relationship channel will explore every aspect of abuse. We want to explore people?s ambivalence towards bullying and abuse. Everyone can play a vital role in challenging abuse and making it socially unacceptable: iVillage
Sharon Doughty, a child survivor of domestic abuse tells us her story
It may seem unromantic but a pre-nuptial agreement could save a lot of hassle, if not heartbreak, in the long-term
Pre-nuptial agreement: harmful or essential? Couples share their experiences.
You're in love, in a committed relationship but feel lonely. Sue Quilliam identifies and offers solutions to this modern problem
Susan Quilliam reveals the main reasons and constructive solutions to help you make that serious divorce decision
Learn how to clearly communicate and break bad habits in your relationships. Couples Counsellor Susan Quilliam makes it easy
Everyone knows sex can go off the boil. These 20 hot tips will help you hot up your sex life
Married women - they never stop phoning each other. They also vent, moan, laugh and support each other through the highs and lows of married life
There are four major stages in an adult relationship. Couples Counsellor, Sue Quilliam prepares you for each level: iVillage
It is possible - and more than possible - to avoid bad relationship days. Sue Quilliam raises the common issues that provoke bad days
Affairs are so common in the 21st century it?s likely that at some point you will be tempted to play the field whilst in a committed relationship
It?s not just love that makes a relationship last. There are four other ingredients to success ? respect, trust, honesty and letting the relationship evolve at it?s own pace: iVillage
They wear too little, they laugh too loudly and they are overly familiar with your man. Welcome to the world of women who flirt on your turf
They wear too little, they laugh too loudly and they are overly familiar with your man. Welcome to the world of women who flirt on your turf
Recovering from a break-up with someone you love is often a struggle. Life Coach, Caro Handley guides us through the emotional rollercoaster
Life coach Caro Handley takes you through the steps needed to move on after breaking-up
The anti-climax after the big climax. Many women find their first year of marriage difficult and arguments are often inevitable: iVillage
We've all been there. Avoiding the telephone, inventing brilliant excuses and wishing he'd just go away. Breaking up is hard to do, but sometimes it just has to be done...
Taking your husband's name or sticking to your maiden name is at the centre of many heated debates on marriage. Annabel Heseltine explores attitudes to married and maiden names: iVillage
Even if you are not married, you still have rights when splitting up: iVillage
You can apply for a divorce if you show signs of the following behaviou: adultery, unreasonable behaviour, desertion, separatio: iVillage
If you?re about to move in together prepare yourself for any early-day hiccups with these seven issues that can make or break your co-habiting dreams: iVillage
By freeing ourselves from inhibition, releasing old beliefs about our sexual capacities, we can all reach sexual ecstasy again and again: iVillage
Advice from ivillage members for surviving and recovering from the end of a relationship: iVillage
Tips and advice for how to create quality time together from members of the iVillage community: iVillage
Kissing tips from members of the iVillage communit: iVillage
Read advice from members of the iVillage community on how to successfully live with your partner: iVillage
Whether you're married or not, here are 10 tips from wise iVillagers to prepare you for some of the joys of being a wife: iVillage
Dating tips and advice from iVillage member: iVillage
iVillage members offer advice and solutions to common communication problems: iVillage
iVillage members offer advice and solutions to why men are unfaithful
If you sense that your flirtatious snubs and indecision are frustrating him, throw him a bone: iVillage